Layout...ALL WRONG!

As you can all see the layout has changed for a third time and I personally, DO NOT LIKE IT!!! Hello, BLACK, are you SERIOUS? What are we advertising for a funeral parlor??? Come on, it looks so bland and doesn't even match my nice picture, not to mention the theme of the blog! I am going to start working on a much prettier and better looking layout, I have one I downloaded that is very nice looking and has rounded edges and other such awesomeness that I will alter cause the colours and over all theme are all wrong. Also this time I plan on consulting my sister on what she wants so that there is no longer any "creative differences" and it can stay the same for awhile...